Change is inevitable.
Blah Blah Blah.... *sighsheavily*
My life has changed exponentially recently. Some I did to myself, some just fell in my lap. I always thought of myself as adaptable. But... some of the recent changes are making me.... Sleepy.
The truth is that, as confident as I am, I am addicted to change. I expect that people are going to disappoint and frustrate me. I expect to get let down. So when they start to show signs, I flip it a lil' bit to avoid the emotional downfall. All the while telling myself that I refuse to settle. This was what made me feel better.
So here I am, sitting here wondering if good relationships involve a little bit of settling. Do you take this even if you're not going to get that? Do you accept a little because in the grand scheme you don't really need all of it anyway? Or do you say Fuck That! and demand all of it or go with nothing because, damn it, you're worth it. At what point does compromise start stepping on your toes?
Some people are settling down, some people are settling and some people refuse to settle for anything less than butterflies.- Candice Bushnell, Sex and the City